" PERSON WHO FEARS TO SPEECH "
It is very common , that most of the students get feared when they heard their school is organising a speech competition and it is mandatory to participate.
And we think that "i am unable ", sometimes language make this tough.
for instance there is a student who is week in english always tries to escape .
sometimes , lack of confidence
lack of thoughts,
wrong pronunciation,
slips of tongue,
style of speaking
stopped many students to deliver a speech in front of school which include their favourites teachers too.
now,
i talk on all points which i mentioned above.
1. LANGUAGE PROBLEM
instead of saying theoretical ones , i say practical things
to solve it,
1. start writing diary in english .it gives you sufficient time and make you workout in it ,which help you . It gives you much thought , and require vocabulary , to write your emotion . For this you need translation of sentence .Repeat this activity, it gives you sufficient amount of sentences to elaborate your feeling anywhere ,anytime.
2. change your thought process
it can be understood by example that when we speak our mother tongue it doesn't require any translation of sentence in mind. we directly say what we want to say
but in english first we translate our hindi sentence into english in mind then we talk or say something
it . it is good for short term but not for long term because it disrupt your fluency.
so for long term ,
start thinking in english ,your thoughts ,emotions directly in english no translation in mind
benefit of this method is it do not require any person to listen you
safe and right path.
but emphatic solution .
all minds have many thoughts and if you do this you will get huge collection of words according to need.
And feel confident ,it makes you so much fluent.
2. LACK OF CONFIDENCE
Simple solution ,
never try to escape , because you have thought , fluency and good pronunciation.
participate in oral activities
it is step process
once you deliver your speech you gain confidence
again and again doing this makes you very energetic and confident
it is matter of how much you face crowd .
more you face the crowd more you confident next time.
don't worry .
3.LACK OF THOUGHTS
if a person do not have thoughts but have all abilities
which a good speaker posses.then
easy solution of this problem is read many
books as you can ,articles ,great personalities ,
take part in discussion.
it is because a good speaker give evidences to proof his statement.
for make your speech realistic it requires evidences, examples , logics ,to make
your statement emphatic
for this you need knowledge.which comes from books surroundings, experience .
And important thing give time for yourself.
4 WRONG PRONUNCIATION
Simply,
speak in english as much you can
because it is a matter of practice,
more you practice more you see improvements in yourself .
take help from outside if have you any problem for specific word
5 SLIPS OF TONGUE
person suffering from this problem ,
does not require any additional practice
what they have to do is
the the time of reading
murmur the text little bit loud.
It gives you much practiceif you read by saying.
6.STYLE OF SPEAKING
people who suffering from this trouble ,take help of youtube and
acquaintance
and give time for yourself
find mistakes and improve.
TIPS THAT IS VALID FOR ALL IS
1 DO MEDITAION
2.DO EXERCISE
3.DRINK PLENTY OF WATER
4 THINK POSITIVE AND DREAM DAILY, WHAT YOU WANT TO BECOME .
all points which i have mention have hidden science which i do not mention.To keep this article short and easy.
ALL KINDS OF PROBLEM CAN BE SOLVE BY POSITIVE ATTITUDE AND GOOD APPROACH .
KEEP FAITH IN YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU HAVE WORLD'S STRONGEST AND POWERFUL WEAPON THAT IS MIND .WHICH IS HOME OF MIRACLES.
SO STAY HEALTHY BECAUSE
" GOOD MIND RESIDES IN HEALTHY MIND"
AND ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT
.
"DIFFICULTY NOT COMES TO DESTROY YOU
BUT
TO HELP YOU TO REALIZE YOUR HIDDEN POTENTIAL"